erm..i think every trip have some reflection on anything....yan2 mei ask me after we visit holland v..from what i know..singapore really is a nice place to be live in..as in transport...people..and university...but then..is a very competitive place..people compete for exam...for money...even for guys..and the sad part is..good people always lost out..if u wana learn what reality is mean to ordinary people...come to singapore....
another bad thing about singapore...as i think la...girl generally doing well than guys..as in relationship..things...exam..well, i think in malaysia also la...but then, relationship is not easy in any part of the world..
then again..i think many people..especially young people can have a life ba...i love what they really do with young people..especially church meeting...i think that is what christian and other religion different..they will envolve according to time...but retain the core teaching and value..well, they plan their activity with young people thinking in mind, which make people think church is fun..well, sure..everything will be fun, but u also there to learn..to be faithful to your religion, to faithful and truthful to yourself and held accountable on what u have done...hoping when the time comes...yan ling mei will have make the correct decision for herself, and not simply join just becos he is in church..if u enter a fellowship just because u wana be with the person..it is not true and that is not a relationship god wanted..that is what i think....
well...for myself..i think is very fruitful trip..i learn something..i tried something..i become independent...i try to make out for myself..take note on what people think of me..dun held myself too high on things..and i finally realise that i not that good of person also..even if people tell me as such, i think i wont believe also la..is like no person is good nor bad..is the matter how you see yourself is the most important..as some fren mention, what people say is what people think, they have their own thinking that u cannot control, as long as u truthful to youself, good things will come...
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kor... i'm proud of u... didn't know just a random question about your thoughts can generate so much self-reflection... its good that u learnt sth from the trip... and i've not been a very good tour guide la.. i know i quite harsh at times because i want u to wake up about certain stuff... i'll leave with another random advice...
the future is not set. the future is in your hands. a decision that you make today can change your entire future.
have a good rest!~
erm..well..that is very nice of u la..mei..i really need ot sort out the mess i keep piling up for myself..hopefully all will be ok when i done wiht it...thanks again...
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